1953 -  Feb 1st 2005

To my dear friend Sir B ... Ben,
I hope this page brings all those who loved you and were close to you some joy and smiles
 when looking over the pictures taken of you at Hush over the past years.
You were always pretty camera shy, so I am amazed I have so many shots of you to place on
 your page. I just bet your looking down right now, while flying around on the largest dragon saying..
"Tan, stop making such a fuss and get those damn pictures off!"
Sorry Ben ... but although I can feel you tossing me one of your looks...
there are so many people who will enjoy to see you and enjoy the great memories of your
time with us all ... so my friend... Nope! *grin*  They are all staying right here!
And, yes I know I am being brave saying No to you,
so please hold off on the lightening bolt ok. *smile, hugs, cuddle*

Ben /  Sir B will be missed by so many people and our deepest
sympathy and thoughts go to Ben's  lovely wife Di and his whole family, as well
as Trudy and all those people in the BDSM world who's lives he touched.
With much love and respect you are remembered and thought about with a soft smile.
Thank you for all your support, guidance, wisdom, taps on the butt and most
of all your friendship to not only me but many many people in and out of this scene.

Sure going to miss those huge hugs hello Ben.... your friend .. Tan  aka  Mistress Tan